I would say that when it comes to mother-in-laws, I lucked out. I hear friends and family alike complain about their mother-in-laws, but I think Jen and I are close and get along great together.
As Tom was out of town, she was nice enough to accompany me to the GI specialist for an appointment for Samantha. I tend to stress about a lot of things, but especially issues concerning my children.
As I was filling out paperwork, I noticed a "couple" (even had matching rings-yeah!) come out of an exam room with their little boy. One "dad" carried the diaper bag and the child, and the other "dad" followed behind. My cereal churned in my stomach at the thought of the "life partners," but I went back to paperwork and didn't think much else about it. I didn't realize Jen noticed as well.
We went back to the exam room and sat down on the row of chairs--first Jen, then myself, and poor Sam was in her lovely hospital gown on the examination table (I don't remember Tommy's exact location, but my guess is he was swinging from a light fixture at this point). Anyway, the doctor (who spoke with the accent of Apu on the Simpsons) introduced himself and was trying to figure out who was the mom, etc. Having forgotten about the "life partners" who had previously graced the room with their "speshial" presence, it took me a second to figure out what Jen was talking about when she said the following:
"I'm the grandma, and this is the mother. And she's married. To a man. I want to clarify that from the beginning!" Once I figured out what she was getting at, I nearly wet my pants laughing. Like I said, we're close, but not that close!